I’ve asked Monica Sharman to guest blog this week. Monica and I have been friends meeting weekly by phone for about seven years. She is a stay-at-home mom, an editor and enthusiastic Bible reader. I recommend her new book: Behold the Beauty: An Invitation to Bible Reading.
Some people are attractive, like magnets – Carol, Tom, Jean, Jay. If they threw a party, everyone would want an invitation. People look for them in a crowd and hope for a chance to shake hands or say hello. I’ve seen people actually burst into a cheer when Tom entered the room.
But these four go beyond “magnetic personality.” They attract others to Christ. They live a life that results in others wanting to be closer to Jesus.
I want that.
I told my husband about it. “Some people are so attractive – I mean, they are magnetic people who attract others to Christ. You know, like Carol. I want to be like that.”
I kept thinking out loud. “Because of that, I’ve been meditating on something I came across in Proverbs.”
Let lovingkindness and truth never leave you.
Bind them around your neck.
Write them on the tablet of your hearts.
Then you will have good repute
with God and men.
“So it seems like lovingkindness and truth would help me get better at drawing people to Jesus.”
Charles gave a thoughtful pause. “Those are good verses,” he said, “but I don’t think they’re about the attractiveness you’re talking about. There’s a difference between having a good reputation and having that magnetism for Christ.”
Charles’s comment reminded me of Bible verses on being a fragrant aroma. I made a mental note, a to-do item: Copy those “aroma” verses and meditate on them.
I never got around to it. (That’s why mental notes are inferior to written ones.)
But God got me around to it. Five months later, my Bible reading plan took me to Second Corinthians – the “aroma” verses.
But thanks be to God, who always leads us in His triumph in Christ, and manifests through us the sweet aroma of the knowledge of Him in every place. For we are a fragrance of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing; to the one an aroma from death to death, to the other an aroma from life to life.
(2 Corinthians 2:14-16)
I used to think being a sweet fragrance for Christ meant directing that fragrance to others – living so that people will like me, even if that meant conforming my personality to theirs. I have to listen to the music they like! I have to go to the mall if they like shopping! I have to be like Tom!
But in my thinking, the direction of the aroma was all wrong. Being a sweet aroma does not mean being a people-pleaser. We are a fragrance of Christ to God.
I read the whole thing again. There are two aromas. I drew pictures of them in my journal.
One aroma is the knowledge of Christ. This aroma is from God, through me, to others.
The Knowledge-of-Christ Aroma:
The other aroma is me (“we are a fragrance of Christ”). This aroma is from me, to God, in the presence of others.
The Aroma of Me:
The knowledge-of-Christ aroma IS directed to others. But the aroma of ME is to be Godward.
I am to be a God-pleaser.
I shouldn’t worry about how people perceive the aroma of me, whether they think my life-fragrance is a sweetness or a stench. I shouldn’t adjust my life according to what people think (which seems awfully similar to fad-conforming peer pressure), but according to what God thinks.
If I want that magnetic-personality, attractive-fragrance that draws people to Christ, the point is not to please them but to please God. Then of course, though the aroma is Godward, the people around me will pick up the scent.
Father, keep reminding me that my fragrance is to You and for You. Please use me to spread the knowledge of Christ to those around me.
For more on Monica’s book, including information on bulk discounts and how to read a free preview, visit the Behold the Beauty web page.